Random thoughts
Tuesday, August 19, 2008 at 8:53PM I'll comment more on the stuff I have written regarding how the church handles failure of its members and in particular its leaders......man we are harsh....there are a couple things I need to listen to and read first....so for now just some thoughts on the last couple weeks...they have been tough...not on me so much...but on the lives of people I know....therefore it has impacted me rather deeply......first of all a friend of mine who has been in ministry for over a couple decades has stepped out of ministry and is going through a very difficult time......there is no doubt he needed to and has acted in ways that have hurt others.....but it always seems the response to that is to step back from the person, rather than embrace the person in their brokenness and sin......friends quit calling....people avoid contact and so the broken person who needs healing and ministry is left to fend for themselves........what a shame......I know this I am going to be his friend even when he acts like a dumb ass....what kind of friendship is it when someone fails...we abandon and cut off...if a person is a friend, aren't they always your friend, when they are acting good and when they are acting bad.....just some thoughts.....on top of this a young lady that I know took her own life...she was 35.......evidently felt so hopeless and was filled with such despair and confusion she decided she didn't want to live any more..........OUCH.......she had no interest in God whatsoever and no interest in church......yet when I think about her choice to end her life....evidently because she was miserable.......what could it have hurt to investigate Jesus, to hang out with a community of faith.........she would have experienced love, affirmation, acceptance....at least with the people I hang out with....I know she would have.......I led a service for her at a Wine Bar.....frankly a place I think Jesus would have been comfortable ...in fact I'm thinking he would have been more comfortable there, then at some of the churches that exist today......sorry........what do you say in such a circumstance? well God gave me grace and favor......in the end I shared about what's really important....what's the most important thing?
Loving God and loving one another.........told them about the story of the 'expert in the law' who sought to 'test Jesus'........so he asked him which is the most important commandment....and Jesus wouldn't answer....he asked him....what do you think it is? .....the man answered...to love the Lord your God with all your heart soul and mind.......Jesus said 'you are right and the second is like it....love your neighbor as your self....go and live ' Not to bad an idea for me or you...love God, love others...Go and live!
Reader Comments (2)
Great post Carl. I used it on a post I put up on my blog today but I put a link to your blog and obviously credited you with the authorship.
I have always wondered why the church is always majoring in the minors, when it all comes down to the two greatest commandments.
I choose to love God, love others, and now I am gonna go live :-)
I am an old friend of yours, I agree w/ you on all points. I hate that we throw away people. I hate that people throw away the people they love by being "asses". I hate that people that their lives because of that despair that make us feel that even Jesus isn't enough when we sin and the Body will reject us. Thanks for loving your friend, hating sin but not the sinner!